REACHING THE DECISION TO MOVE OVERSEAS

The entire family is affected by a relocation decision, especially an overseas move, particularly if the move is not military-related. For that reason, the decision should be discussed with all family members.

Children should be told that an overseas relocation has been offered, and care should be taken to listen to the reactions. Even if the move is inevitable, the fact that the children were included will go a long way towards helping them adjust.

ALLEVIATING THE FEARS OF AN OVERSEAS MOVE

Once the decision to move overseas has been made, children should be informed as soon as possible. At this time, the children should be encouraged to let the parents know of any concerns or fears they may have concerning the move. All questions should be answered to the best of the parents’ abilities.

Learning as much as possible about where the family will be living is one of the best ways to alleviate worry and fear. Adults will benefit from this as well as children

PLANNING THE OVERSEAS MOVE

An overseas move involves more than just traveling from the former residence to the new country. Consideration will have to be given to all aspects the situation.

Arrangements will need to be made for the packing, storing, and shipping of belongings. A professional moving company that operates internationally will probable be needed, as that company will be aware of all laws, rules, regulations, and stipulations involved in an overseas move.

Further, the decision of whether or not to move the entire family at one time may be faced. It may be necessary for only one family member to initially move to the new location, with the others following as soon as the funds are available, and, of course, living arrangements have been obtained.

THE ACTUAL MOVE

No moving experience is easy, but an overseas move has its own concerns. There will be necessary adjustments. However, if one remembers that things and people are different, it will make this process easier.